Why You Keep Gaining The Weight Back (+ What To Do About It)

There are three main reasons that I’ve seen in my 10+ years as a Nutrition Coach and someone who has gained and lost weight myself.

But first, why is this such an important topic?

Because, according to the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, 80% and 95% of people who lose a significant amount of weight regain it over time.

Why the range?

Because different studies and organizations define successful weight maintenance differently.

For some, maintenance means regaining less than a set percentage of lost weight, for others it simply means staying in a healthy BMI range, and for others, like the National Weight Control Registry (NWCR) criteria for successful maintenance includes “having lost at least 30 pounds and kept it off for 1+ year”.

So, as always, context matters.

But the bottom line is that losing weight is often the easy part when compared to keeping it off.

Why is weight maintenance so fucking hard?

Biology

When you lose weight, you burn fewer calories than before (metabolic adaptation) - this makes maintaining weight loss difficult if you go back to eating the same quantity of food you before the diet because your body doesn’t need that much energy anymore.

Metabolic Adaptation also involves hormone changes. When you begin losing weight, hunger hormones (like ghrelin) increase, while satiety hormones (like leptin) decrease, making you feel hungrier and less satisfied with the same amount of food.

Psychology

Many people follow restrictive diets that are not sustainable long-term, leading to diet fatigue and eventual overeating. Stress, boredom, and other emotional triggers can also cause people to revert to old eating behaviors if new non-food related habits and coping mechanisms haven’t been formed.

Environment

Many people lose weight through short-term efforts but don’t establish sustainable lifestyle changes. Anyone can lose weight by eating fewer calories, but if you don’t build long-term habits that support your lean body and your healthy lifestyle, you’ll slide back to where you started.

Family habits, social gatherings, and having readily available processed foods within reach can also make maintenance difficult.

What can you do to ensure that the weight you lose STAYS OFF?

Here @nutritionwithnicole we use a 3-part formula because ensuring the results our clients create are results they can confidently SUSTAIN is our superpower.

1. Nutrition education and awareness - when you understand how energy balance and metabolism work, you know what to expect and how to adapt your plan based on biofeedback.

2. Mindful eating skills and habits - when you have a sustainable nutrition strategy and healthy coping mechanisms you can use in high-stress situations, you can confidently navigate nutrition in any season.

3. A supportive environment - the people/places/information you learn from and spend time with that either support or sabotage your efforts

If you’re looking for help losing weight and confidently keeping it off without dieting or deprivation, fill out a 1:1 Nutrition Coaching application and let’s chat about how we can make that happen!

Struggling with fat loss? Your MINDSET might be the missing puzzle piece!

If fat loss, food freedom, and body confidence were as easy as eating the “right” foods and working out enough, my guess is most of us would have achieved our dream bodies a looooong time ago.

How you think about these things matters more than you realize. It’s true that eating goal-supportive foods and moving your body is important, but so is having supportive thought patterns around these behaviors.

Too many women approach fat loss from a place of hate and shame. They focus their energy on restricting food intake and forcing themselves to push through long, sweaty workouts.

The reality is, punishment and shame can only take you so far before you crash and burn. And instead of progress and improved health, you’ll be left with disappointment and frustration that you failed yet again.

Follow these steps, alongside healthy eating and movement habits, for true, lasting change you can actually feel good about:

1 >> Recognize unhelpful or self-destructive thought patterns:

“I’ll never be successful, I might as well quit.”

“It’s easier for her because of X.”

“I have no self-control, if I eat one cookie I’ll eat them all!”

“I hate exercising and vegetables so I’ll never be healthy.”

“I ate some pizza and now everything is ruined. Guess I’ll start again Monday.”

“I have to eat clean foods only. Processed food is bad.”

These are all common but completely unproductive thoughts. Instead of helping you towards your goal, they only serve to hold you back. In order to create change, you must first create awareness.

2 >> Focus on reframes or fact-check yourself. Now that you have awareness of your personal thought patterns, it’s time to do something about them! You can choose to reframe them or simply decide they’re untrue and no longer worth your time. This can look like:

“This process is taking longer than I thought, but every day I’m closer to my goals.”

“Actually, I’m an adult and no one is forcing me to finish the cookies. Eating 2 cookies is great, and now I’m going to put the rest away even though I wish I could eat more. That choice doesn’t align with my goals.”

“I don’t like traditional workouts but I enjoy walking with a friend and playing tennis. I’ll focus my energy there.”

“I overate some pizza today. That’s totally fine, I’m human and allowed to be imperfect. I’ll wait until I’m hungry and then eat a more goal-supportive meal.”

3 >> Practice patience and self-compassion. You’ve likely had some of these thought patterns for years, if not decades! They won’t go away overnight. Expect them to stick around for a bit. That doesn’t mean you’re failing! It’s hard for your brain to rewire them. Stay focused on your reframes and fact checking. Be kind to yourself when you fall back into old habits. The longer you stick with this, the quieter your old thought patterns become.

Creating lasting change isn’t always easy, or pretty. It requires that you get honest and vulnerable about what’s truly holding you back. But rest assured, leaning into that discomfort does pay off in the end!

As always, if you need any help, do not hesitate to fill out a Coaching Application.

We’re always here to help,

Coach Lauren

Taking a weight loss drug is NOT “cheating” 👀🚫

and you shouldn’t feel any shame for using science, or the advancement of medicine, to improve your health and quality of life. Here’s why ⤵️

Obesity is not a willpower issue.

Biology plays a role! Some bodies are naturally hungrier and have a harder time reaching fullness (influencing how much a person consumes), and when prescribed under the right circumstances, GLP-1 medications can help to correct imbalances and make weight loss more achievable for those who struggle.

GLP-1 medications do not replace healthy habits. 🙂‍↔️

They simply help to level the playing field for people whose biology makes weight loss harder. Creating and sustaining healthy eating habits is still required ✅ in order to create, and maintain, positive health outcomes. In fact, when taking a GLP-1, some healthy habits (like protein intake and strength training) become even more important.

Choosing to use GLP-1s (assuming you meet the criteria and have considered the risks), or weight loss support of any kind (therapist, Nutrition Coach, etc.) to support your health and quality of life is NOT you should be ashamed of.

Your No-Nonsense Nutrition Coach, Nicole