weight loss

“I’m worried about gaining the weight back!

Let’s talk about MAINTENANCE.

But first, an unpopular opinion: diets actually do work. Most conventional diets will put you in a caloric deficit, and, if you stick to them, you’ll achieve fat loss!

The problem is that most conventional diets help you create a calorie deficit using unsustainable methods: drastically cutting back on carbs, only eating in a small feeding window, following a strict meal plan, or eating very low calories, and they don’t actually teach you how to eat for real life (or how to maintain the weight loss).

Sadly, 80-85% of people who lose weight will gain it back, but that doesn’t have to be your reality! Here’s what you need to know about maintenance in order to achieve lasting fat loss:

  1. Expect the scale to go up a little bit. The goal of maintenance is NOT to stay at your lowest weight for the rest of your life. As you transition from fat loss to maintenance and begin eating more food, the scale will trend up a few pounds as a result of eating more food and having more water in your body. Instead of expecting to stay at a specific weight forever, aim for a 5 pound range you feel good in and know that small fluctuations are normal.

  2. In an ideal scenario, maintenance simply means more food. If you used a sustainable method to lose weight where you ate mostly whole foods, prioritized protein and fiber, and didn’t eliminate any food groups, transitioning to maintenance is simply about adding a few calories back in. This can look like making your meals a bit bigger, adding a snack throughout the day, and/or allowing for more flexibility around meals out and fun foods. It shouldn’t look drastically different from the method you used to lose weight in the first place. Note: You’ll want to start slow, adding only a couple hundred calories back in at a time, and adjust, as needed.

  3. If you lost weight by tracking, it does’t mean you have to track forever. Maybe you enjoy tracking your food but want a break, or maybe you’re ready to move away from tracking entirely, either way, you can do so without gaining the weight back. Transitioning away from tracking can take many different forms, depending on what feels best for you: You can reduce the number of days/ week you’re tracking (e.g. only tracking Friday-Sunday since they’re often less predictable), stop tracking the meals you eat on repeat (e.g. if you eat the same thing every day for breakfast and know it works for you), or quit cold turkey and lean on the meal making skills and hunger/fullness cues you have. Here @nutritionwithnicole we believe that tracking is an amazing tool, but should never be something you feel you need in order to make/maintain your progress.

  4. Similar to fat loss, maintenance is a skill! Many people have spent a significant amount of time living in dietary extremes - eating as little as possible/being “good” and going off the rails. Being able to confidently maintain your weight is about mastering the space in the middle - building mostly balanced meals, honoring your hunger and fullness cues, enjoying meals out and fun foods without overeating them, and feeling confident about your food choices without micromanaging or obsessing over them. It takes time, practice, and a lot of patience. Be gentle with yourself and celebrate the small wins along the way.

If you’ve struggled with maintaining weight loss in the past, it’s likely because you didn’t lose the weight in a way you could realistically stick with long-term. Remember: the way you lose weight is also the way you keep it off - with a few additional calories and more flexibility. :)

If you’re looking for a sustainable fat loss solution that allows you to lose weight and confidently keep it off, reach out. We’re here to help.

Whether by way of 1:1 Nutrition Coaching, or our monthly nutrition membership, NOURISH, our goal is to equip our clients with the tools and skills they need to lose weight without dieting or deprivation, so they can confidently keep it off through every season.

Taking a weight loss drug is NOT “cheating” 👀🚫

and you shouldn’t feel any shame for using science, or the advancement of medicine, to improve your health and quality of life. Here’s why ⤵️

Obesity is not a willpower issue.

Biology plays a role! Some bodies are naturally hungrier and have a harder time reaching fullness (influencing how much a person consumes), and when prescribed under the right circumstances, GLP-1 medications can help to correct imbalances and make weight loss more achievable for those who struggle.

GLP-1 medications do not replace healthy habits. 🙂‍↔️

They simply help to level the playing field for people whose biology makes weight loss harder. Creating and sustaining healthy eating habits is still required ✅ in order to create, and maintain, positive health outcomes. In fact, when taking a GLP-1, some healthy habits (like protein intake and strength training) become even more important.

Choosing to use GLP-1s (assuming you meet the criteria and have considered the risks), or weight loss support of any kind (therapist, Nutrition Coach, etc.) to support your health and quality of life is NOT you should be ashamed of.

Your No-Nonsense Nutrition Coach, Nicole

5 healthy habits to STICK WITH

Now that the 73 days of January have passed, it’s officially love month and according to most research, 80% of New Years resolutions have been abandoned by February.

And while, in some cases, that could be a good thing (like if your resolution was too restrictive or aggressive), here are five healthy habits you definitely want to stick with this season:

Prioritizing sleep 💤 

Skimping on sleep is a great way to ensure you’re hungry more often and feel like working out less often. 😬 So stay up late when it really matters, but make sure you’re still prioritizing sleep whenever possible. 

Gold ⭐️ goal = 7-9 hours/night

Eating veggies 🥗 

There is nothing quite like a happy digestive system and easeful bathroom trips! 🚽 Enjoy your favorite fun foods and beverages, but don’t forget your fiber too!

Gold ⭐️ goal for women = 25+ grams of fiber/day

Gold ⭐️ goal for men = 35+ grams of fiber/day

Getting steps 👣

Inside or outside, fast, or slow, walking is a healthy habit you can (and should) stick with all yearlong. The risk is low and the benefits - blood sugar stabilization, mood boosting, weight management, bone and heart health - are wiiiild. 

Gold ⭐️ goal = 8-10K steps/day

Prepping protein 🍤 

Carbs and fats are always easy to find and can usually be prepared quickly. But protein requires forethought and preparation. Make balanced meals easy by having 1-2 prepared options in your fridge at all times. 

Gold ⭐️ goal ‎ = -.7-1 gram of protein per lb. of ideal body weight or lean body mass

Planning for your faves 🍪 

You can enjoy ALL foods and still make amazing progress, it’s true. But it’s easy for foods hyper-palatable, low-nutrient value foods to add up quickly. In an effort to more easily balance them with the foods your body NEEDS (like proteins, fiber, complex carbs, and healthy fats), plan for them! 

Know weekend cocktails are your jam? Commit a drink max that will leave you feeling good but not hungover. 

Look forward to Friday pizza night all week long? Plan on eating a high protein, high fiber meal beforehand knowing you’ll get plenty of carbs and fats later. 

Need help establishing these healthy habits and ensuring you can confidently maintain them all year long?

We’re here to help.

Your Online Nutrition Coach,

Nicole Hagen

Dieting doesn’t work, so, what does? (3/3)

Step 3: Think in terms of YEARS, not DAYS or WEEKS

Dieting teaches you how to transform your life in 30 days FOR 30 days, but after the diet ends so do the results you worked hard for. 

Instead of asking, “How can I lose weight fast?” you need to ask, “How can I lose weight in a way that will LAST?” 

#hardtruth, it’s going to take longer than you want it to, 

you won’t reach your goal in days or weeks. 

But when you take your time and build skills and habits you can maintain through even the toughest seasons, you’re never at risk of “falling off the wagon” and gaining all the weight back. 

Think of the version of you who has reached her goals. 

  • What does she do consistently? 

  • What does she NOT do consistently? 

  • How does she show up when stress is high and life feels hard? 

  • What skills and habits does she have that allow her to live healthy and happy?

Write ✍️ those down and then list them out in order from least to most challenging.

Start by building the skill that feels the least challenging (even if it seems too easy) and once you’ve mastered it 80% of the time, add a new focus. 

Not only does this build your proficiency over time, it also builds your confidence as you realize what a capable badass you are.

If you want to successfully lose weight without dieting this year, don’t miss our FREE Nutrition Audit Challenge where my team and I will help you identify the skills and habits you need to reach your sustainable weight loss goals. 

Starting January 20th in the Nutrition Coaching with Nicole Facebook Group

I can’t wait to see you inside!

How To Set A Weight Loss Resolution That Works

Did you know that more than 50% of Americans set weight loss related resolutions,

and only 9% of people who make them, complete them!?

23% of resolution makers quit by the end of week one, 

and an additional 43% of people quit by the end of the month. 

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with resolutions. It’s how we do it and what we resolve to do/not do that’s problematic. 

  • We go all in starting January 1st 

  • We leave no room for error or flexibility which means we quit when we fail

  • We make overly challenging commitments and stack them on top of each other

If that’s been your experience, I suggest resolving to do things differently this year. 

Because it’s time to reach your weight loss resolution. Don’t you think?

Here’s how I recommend reaching your weight loss resolution: 

  • Set realistic goals 

You’re not going to lose 10# in a month. You might want to, but if you’re looking to lose body fat and keep it off (vs. gaining/losing water weight over and over again), you can expect to lose .5-2# per week if you’re consistently eating in a calorie deficit. 

  • Focus on behavior changes

Rather than focusing on the outcome (weight loss), focus on the behaviors you need to create in order to encourage the desired outcome. 

“I’m going to eat protein at every meal this week” vs. “I’m going to lose 5# this month” 

  • Make sustainable changes

If you can’t see yourself sticking with the behavior, don’t try to create weight loss that way, because if you can’t sustain the behavior, you won’t maintain the weight loss. 

  • Be patient and persistent 

Sustainable weight loss isn’t a 30 day game. It takes TIME to create results that last and you will likely encounter unexpected barriers and curve balls along the way. 

  • Track your progress

Keep a record of the metrics that mean the most to you and ensure you’re tracking more than only weight. 

  • Recruit support

We are more accountable to others than we are to ourselves, so whether a coach, mentor, friend, or family members, build a support system and stop trying to do it alone. 

  • Use positive reinforcement

Reward yourself for the wins you achieve - no matter how small. Success begets success and when we pause to recognize what we’re doing well, we’re more likely to do those things and create additional progress.

  • Be flexible 

Circumstances will change. Shit will hit the fan sometimes. Be prepared to choose the “next best thing” when the best, most ideal option isn’t available. 

  • Prioritize overall health and wellbeing

There are many different ways we can lose weight. Not all of them are health-promoting, meaning that while we might see the scale go down (initially), over time, we will be left feeling poorly and costing ourselves health and happiness, which will likely lead to poor health markers and weight regain. 

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How To Have Your Healthiest, Happiest Holiday Season

Because adopting a “fuck it” mindset until January 1st will only ensure that any progress you make in the future will fall apart this time next year.

The 🔑 to creating a healthy relationship with food and fat loss that lastsss is to learn how to confidently navigate nutrition in ✨every✨ season.

Here are a few of my best tips + tricks:

RE: EVENTS 🥂

1️⃣ Plan ahead. Not every event needs to be a 15 Christmas cookies and cocoa kind of occasion. Identify what means the most to you and commit to making goal-supportive choices outside of those events.

2️⃣ Identify the priority. Is it food? Or the company?

3️⃣ Show up satisfied, not starving

4️⃣ Meet NEEDS and WANTS when filling your plate

RE: MINDSET 🧠

5️⃣ Set realistic expectations regarding progress and outcomes based on how you intend to show up.

6️⃣ Acknowledge that you can eat any food any day of the year, and that this will not be your last holiday

7️⃣ Prioritize flexibility, not perfection

8️⃣ Maintain your basic self-care action steps to minimize stress, overwhelm, and emotional eating

Want to hear more and ensure your holidays are guilt, fear, and stress-free when it comes to food?

Tune into episode 294 of the Health, Wellth & Wisdom Podcast by clicking here.